Question roughly speaking tampons and sex...?

if you get close to your partener beside him wearing a condom and underware and me wearing underware and a tampon?
i mean,
if i am wearing a tampon and we are not have sex were merely gettin close and he is wearing a condom and underware and i am wearing a tampon and underware.
am i as safe as i am going to procure...like by not getting pregnant.i simply dont want to but i cant take the pill but i numeral the tampon will keep sperm out I don`t know right?

plz give me an honest anwer i purely dont wanna get pregnant.
i stingy sperm going through a condom,his underware,myunderware and then the tampon seem impossible to me! don't worry, that's completely secure.
I mean, 4 layer of clothing? Perfectly safe. And economically, I don't think it would even walk through if you took off the condom, and the tampon. Well, logically, you shouldn't take of the tampon if you hold your period!
the condom is adequate! jeez, his scrumdilimptios cant get through if ur weren a tampon. but if u r have ur period don't lift the tampon out and don't have sex!